i got the cards in today thanks for the advice everyone
Good to hear.
I know most sellers don't agree with how the system works as far as who is responsible for what, but it makes no difference. Business is business, and there are things in place to protect both the buyer and seller. Hope I have been a help to some others here as well. If you are selling a cheap item, then the risk of not insuring it may very well be worthwhile. However, be aware that you are taking a risk, and asking for a disaster, by selling a high dollar item, without taking every precautionary option available to you.