Sometimes I say, "please post if that works" just to put the deal in the other person's court. It just saves a step. I don't have to get confirmation, THEN wait to see who is going to post.
Usually, if the trade works for them, they'll post it up. If it doesn't and the other person makes a counteroffer that I like......I go ahead and post it up.
Either way, I never look at it like a "chore" or anything. I have even made several deals with people I feel I know on here and neither of us ever posted the trade.
If anyone ever feels like I need to post the deal, please tell me! I will not be offended.
Tim
Tim, that's a great point. Most of my trades are BV balanced, so if I have cards to offer and someone has listed cards for trade, I usually post the two ends and say "if that works, please post".
Also, if the cards are ones I want, I will usually pursue the trade pretty hard, so I am more willing to post.
And yes David K., copy and paste is your friend . I use it for most of my trades.
Todd